Being Single

You know sometimes i sit and think......"and the point of it all?" guess what i never got an answer....

So i'm whatever age and i'm single, well i don mind coz its actually who/what i am ryt now but the question is, is it gonna end this way am i gonna die a spinster? if so that the case y do i bother myself so much...yazi! Single life is good actually great you get to do your own thing at your own pace, there are no rules and most important you can accomplish a lot when u are still stuck in the "me time" my friends call it....not that a partner pulls u back but you compensate the time u suppose to spend with a partner with keeping yourself busy 'building yourself.' Whatever that means.

The most complicated issue in being single is the "getting laid" part. Ya vele i mean a woman gotta get some but the problem begins with where...u tend to meet someone and they don fit your profile either they are big or small with huge egos and u think WTF! than u try again..the interesting part is that every single women out there was Never Single...either shz a mama's baby or the Man took off with another woman. This makes us single ladies be sceptic about who we choose so we won;t make the same mistake twice.. but that where the problem begins Comparison we seem to compare the past with the present and future which is not wrong for benchmarking progress but we kill ourselves for so doing...anyway where was i Ohh i was in a point 'the getting laid part of the story' well as single as one can be but anyone get laid at the end of the day...thats the saddest part because your sleeping partner is not yours either by agreement or circumstances..when u start being single u say to yourself 'mina i'm never gonna date a married guy' years go by you get older so as your profile in choosing.. you end up dating a married guy anyway and you don't see a problem infact u start telling people more like a sales consultant selling a life cover "married man are actualy good they don't bother you, they support u, they don't rape you in bed like the 23yr old u dated at 29...and the story goes on) forgeting that married man were never good they just became good after they got married...

All of this becomes too much so you result to abstaining and you tell yourself that no me i'm done with man...after that u became a Saved Born again christian and u start critising everyone who isn't...Yini...no secret Sister You're horny period!

you see me I like being single the only part i don't like about it is the Loneliness'the me time' sometime uyamdinga nje umuntu ozokcomfort and tell u things...(though lying to you) but the lies make u happy...i have no problems with a man not being faithfull ukuty nje the man thats gona be mine's gotta be educated,support me, and Hiv negative is it too much to ask?

My black brothers and sisters you see, i know one thing and one thing only,there is no manual on how to live life and at the end of it all..Death comes along. So there are things you will die without achieving because they were beyond your control your whole life..You see buying a Private Jet is far better than getting a man. As broke as i am but i can promise you one thing today that i know i'm certain of buying a Private Jet for sure but getting married, having life partner or whatever that you call it that is not guranteed..Asphilen bafwe2..sibe grand....MAN DOES NOT LIVE ON BREAD ALONE! chaw!